Sunday, May 27, 2012

"M. Butterfly": Gallimard and Eastern Women


“Here… here was a Butterfly with little or no voice—but she has the grace, the delicacy…” (Act 1, Scene 6) says Rene Gallimard, a 65-year old French convict of treachery, when he starts telling us the crux of his life. Gallimard’s life has turned from undesirable to miserable because he meets and falls in love with a perfect woman: his butterfly.
To begin with, Gallimard has always seen his life in the West “as such a disappointment” (Act 2, Scene 11). Contrary to the French men’s stereotype, he is quite unpopular among the ladies. Described as “clumsy”, “got zits”, and “wimp” by his friend Marc, he would rather stay home than go out and have fun with the other university guys. Even since he was a young boy, he was “voted ‘least likely to be invited to a party’” (Act 1, Scene 1), suggesting that he is socially inept. His first sexual encounter was set up by his friend Marc, done roughly in the bushes, even worse, dominated by the woman – somehow have a sense like he was “raped”. He was unconfident and afraid of rejection, traits that remain as he grows up. Later, he married an older woman whom he deems unappealing, Helga, “for a quick leap up the career ladder” (Act 1, Scene 5). He knows that Helga, just like him, doesn’t love him too. She finds his status as a diplomat more adorable than himself. Indeed, he thought “no fantasy woman would ever want him” (Act 1, Scene 5) and beggars can’t be choosers. Nevertheless, Gallimard must have wondered, am I not good enough to love and be loved by a woman I desire?
At the beginning of the play, Gallimard introduced us to his favorite play: Puccini’s Madame Butterfly. Through his fascination of this play, he first enthralled by Song Liling after watching her performance at the German ambassador’s house in Beijing. His reaction was: “I believed her suffering. I wanted to take her in my arms–so delicate, even I could protect her, take her home, pamper her until she smiled” (Act 1, Scene 6). This reveals his perceptions on ideal man and woman. For him, an ideal woman should be delicate, the one who “suffers” and needs to be protected. Thus, an ideal man is one that is stronger and able to provide a protection. Gallimard possesses a need to be needed, apreciated, and valued – a strong masculine complex.
Before watching Song’s portrayal on Cio-Cio-San, Gallimard had never before enjoyed opera. Opera is identic to Western culture, a dramatic work in which the high-pitched music constitutes a dominating feature. Thus, how come Gallimard enjoys an opera with little or no voice? Perhaps his distaste of opera is a reflection of his insecurity. The shrilling voice of opera singers symbolizes a Western world fulfilled with more powerful figures that threatens Gallimard. Song’s “little” voice, therefore, promises a sanctuary for Gallimard, a place where he could feel safe and powerful. This comment provides us the first hint of Gallimard’s idea of perfect woman: a beautiful and delicate butterfly without voice, a woman who doesn’t fight back.
Gallimard’s favorite play represents his dream of a woman who will lie down her life for him. Gallimard perceives Cio-Cio-San, the heroine from Madame Butterfly, as the ideal female figure, a traditional homemaker whose sole purpose is to serve her husband obediently. One who will wait faithfully and love unconditionally. One who is trustful and devoted. In short, he wants a woman who will give up everything to please her man. Traits like that, he believes, are no longer possessed by the Western women. Ironically, Gallimard fails to see that no one in real life possesses each of all those characteristics.
Contrary to his masculine complex, Gallimard also possesses an inferiority complex. He has low self-esteem, insecure, and feels inferior compared to his peers. His masculine ego has been repressed and suffered, but this ego is evoked when he sees Song. An Oriental woman like Cio-Cio-San, Song is an opportunity to satisfy his insecure masculinity. She is a promise for power, authority, and masculine identity that he lacks of. She is the embodiment of Gallimard’s ideal woman, and, by being with her, he will be able to function as the ideal man. Throughout the play, we can see that Gallimard turns into a completely different person after he meets Song. He believes that Song has “changed my (his) life forever”. With his masculine ego satiated, his self esteem builds up significantly. He starts to achieve successes, being promotod to vice-consul and praised by the French ambassador that he “has become this new aggressive confident... thing” (Act 1, Scene 12). He no longer thinks that he is pathetic. Instead, by dominating Song and abusing his power over her, he feels completely masculine. Song incarnates Gallimard’s ideal woman by continuously feeding his pride and ego; further drowning him in his world of fantasy.
            Song is the total opposite of Western women Gallimard used to meet. Unlike his argumentative wife, Song never argues nor challenges him. She always passionately listens and supports his decision. Far from the inconsiderate, brusque Isabelle, Song is modest and compliant. Even her simple gestures display demureness. Her pouring tea to Gallimard, for example, according to Chinese tea culture is a sign of respect and submission. She is not demanding nor expecting. She never asks much from Gallimard as long as he gives her his love. Though she is aware of Gallimard’s affair, Song, unlike a Western woman, doesn’t confront him, threaten, or even pout. She never threatens his masculinity, strong enough to strain her anger and anguish, yet not strong enough to confront Gallimard. Better yet, Song is very beautiful. An equivalent of a diva, winning her heart will be a great accomplishment for Gallimard, a way to prove his masculinity. That he, who is brushed aside for all his life, could win the heart of a prima donna.
In the end, Gallimard’s fantasy leads him to his downfall. For years he has refused to face reality and deceived himself. He only sees what he wants to see in order to retain his fantasy world where he is formidable. His ignorance and unrealistic stereotypes of the East, combined with his denial, makes him easily fooled by Song. Even after knowing the fact about Song, he continues to project his idea of Perfect Woman on himself, which later results in his suicide. With Gallimard’s death, Hwang tells us that stereotyping makes us lay false assumptions on people, and it can easily backfire. Gallimard’s biased view causes him to lose everything and eventually die with the whole world laughing at him.

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